Just a footnote to the previous post, hear one of you say I know I crossed the line, I put that sentence in capitols for a reason, it was a private conversation, not meant for anyones ears but my husbands, you all heard it because you were listening in, illegally. Crossing the line is threatening someone's children, you cross the line daily, you have crossed the line between legal and illegal, between trying to legitimately do your job and changing it into harrassment, you cross the line when you threaten someone with physical harm, and continue to try to cause pain with psychological 'games', in short, there is no line you haven't already crossed and there seems to be no line you won't cross.  I didn't go into detail about that conversation in the previous post because that would be publicly crossing the line, and I am not like you.   The capacity you have for self delusion, the capacity to think that somehow I deserve what you do, that what you have already done is not enough is truly mind boggling.   I suppose that is how you keep going with the hate all these years, self delusion.  I just couldn't let that idiotic comment go uncontested,  crossing the line is your specialty.